2020 has been the year of years. It knocked us all for a loop whether through lost jobs, working from home, being sick, or even trying to homeschool your kids while also working from home. And that’s how a pandemic helped us learn new things.
Everyone is learning something new this year mostly out of necessity. And that’s what happened with my husband. He lost his job. And he’s not going to find one in his field for a very long time. He was a banquet chef at a major hotel in the Orlando area and the hotel doesn’t expect to start doing “normal” banquets again until late spring or early summer 2021.
He’s been applying for job after job…but so have hundreds of other chefs that also lost their jobs in this area. He’s been on several interviews, some we even promising, but they’ve gone nowhere. He was feeling pretty down about it until I reminded him that there are things he always wanted to learn more about.
So he started taking more photos and studying photoshop. But he didn’t stop there. While going on interviews and being required to wear a mask each time, he saw the future of kitchen work. And decided to create his own masks such as this fun 86 It mask.
In an earlier post, I mentioned that I took up crocheting. It’s something that my sister tried to teach me over and over and over again. But I had no patience for it. Then my sister passed and that person pushing me to try crocheting was not there. But somehow, during this pandemic, I found the time to practice. And somehow I found the patience to practice. There was nothing else going on.
So I crocheted. I made three scarves and gave them to my Orlando family. I know, scarves in Orlando. But it was more about playing dress-up than practical use. Maybe, just maybe in January or February, they might be able to use them for real. (Newsflash…it’s actually 45 degrees at 9:00 am in Orlando today!)
Then I decided I wanted to make crocheted daisies. And I started watching YouTube videos and learning to read patterns. That last part I’m still not good at. I have to look at a pattern, then watch it being created (several bajillion times!) And then I’m able to look at the pattern and understand what I’m supposed to do. I’ve even learned enough about creating the particular daisy that I wanted, that I modified the pattern that I originally started working with.
It might not seem like a breakthrough to anyone else, but to me it is huge. And it makes me feel like my sister is sitting next to me showing me how to do it. Trying something new can be big, but it doesn’t have to be huge and it most definitely can be done during a pandemic.
But that’s not all I was doing during the month of November. If I recall correctly, and I believe I do since I wrote it in this blog, I set a goal to try new things…perhaps 60…or perhaps 12. We’ll see how the rest of the pandemic goes, but I can tell you that I created a new eBook.
This one is completely different from my last book. It’s called Making Christmas Memories. I designed it to be helpful for families to create meaningful and fun Christmas memories while still practicing safety and social distancing. It’s filled with stories, poems, games, puzzles, and recipes. There is an included calendar that you can follow or modify to suit your needs.
Don’t scramble to figure out what to do in December. And don’t let the month pass by just like all the other months in 2020. It’s a special month and let’s celebrate Christmas throughout the entire month.

Wow–you and your husband have been busy and productive! With all my church choir’s singing halted, I thought I’d miss singing Christmas carols and hymns so terribly, but then the choir director asked if I’d cantor a Mass or two (one singer is all that’s allowed–and I’ll mask up when I’m not singing). So, I’m doing my first, tomorrow. Nervous, but excited to try my voice at something new!
Thanks for stopping by, Rebecca. My husband finds it hard to basically do nothing. The state was offering job retraining in conjunction with a local college but the classes were all for things that were physically even harder on the back than standing and cooking. Great for younger people. I’m so glad he decided to teach himself how to do things that he always wanted to learn. How was it being a cantor for Mass?
With people relying so much on the internet–for entertainment, inspiration, etc.–especially right now, I can’t think of a better time for your husband to connect with those who share his passion for cooking and delicious chocolate (which is like almost everybody!). I was very nervous to cantor Mass–last evening was my first!–but I did pretty well, and my husband treated me to sushi after. So…worth the nerves! I have to remember that trying new things (even if they’re a bit scary) is a lifelong thing–and not something that ends after childhood!
This is wonderful, Jennifer. Sounds like you and your husband have had challenges this year, but you’re making the best of it. Good luck to both of you!
I’m hoping something good comes out of this horrible situation… this is as good as any. I’m starting to take a writing workshop to shape a performance piece I wrote while in quarantine this past summer. Kind of excited for it to begin in January.
So exciting that you’re taking a writing workshop can’t wait to hear more about this.
I’m so sorry to hear about your husband’s job loss but so glad he’s getting creative with his talents and you too! It’s amazing how innovative people can be in the face of adversity.
Thank you, Rebecca. I will miss his daily lunch, but so glad he was able to finally find a job.