There are lessons in failure, lessons to be learned and if you don’t learn the lesson or if you ignore it, then you are likely to repeat the failure.
Divorce is never pleasant and I know there were far worse divorces than the one I went through. Â But I don’t regret getting a divorce, I would regret it if I didn’t get one. Â Divorce was good for me. Â For one thing, I certainly learned what kind of relationship I didn’t want to be in. Â And that’s important. Â I used that information while forming my next relationship, which is a happier, more fulfilling and more supportive experience. Â What lesson are you in the process of learning?
I never regretted my divorce from my first Husband either… it was the right decision (though he couldn’t see it at the time) for both of us. My only regret is that after years together and 4 children between us, we were unable to stay friends (his choice, not mine). Though I’m thankful that we are now at least on speaking terms.